About This Site: Social experimentation meets ever-so-slight masochism... or perhaps it's sadism?

These are the results of a few online dating website memberships. Some of what you are about to read are Guest posts, added kindly from others whom I've invited to contribute. The rest are mine.

All of them are real.

In these posts I simply want to point out the basis of my evident misanthropy.

This website is not about me or my search (however much in jest it may be these days :P ), it is about the people I encounter along the process involved. And sharing a few laughs with you, the public.

Males are highlighted in blue, females in pink - I know its a stereotype, but here it's just a visual aid (and if we don't get around to coloring them by the time you read them, well... 'meh').
I don't censor much as far as usernames or the like, but if it is requested I am more than happy to do so, anyone can just comment on the post.
Let's say you stumble across here and find a conversation we've had online posted below, and you don't have a humour of your own, if you want it removed or the username changed then all you need to do is comment and say so. All too easy, yeah?

The joy of the online world is we can enjoy a level of anonymity - that includes the people featured below - and no one needs know of your little indiscretions... unless you're one of those odd folk who use their full names as usernames.

Which serves as a fitting segue into the following pieces of info:

I am never false in these interactions: my pictures on the dating website are real, as are all of my profile details (ie height, weight, interests, location etc), and I do not pretend to be anything I'm not. If you see me answering what I do for a living and my answers differ: it's because I have several j0bs and it's just easier to only mention one.

I am a 20something Australian female interested predominantly in other females... or perhaps males though my profile does state that you have to be a pretty special male to have a chance.
I do state in my profile that I'm looking for Friendship and people to talk to. (Some other posts: I have selected Casual Dating also, and these both change between 'with a male/female/either' - depending on when the conversation takes place on my personal timeline). I don't lead anyone one to believe we'll get together if we won't.
I do share my phone number and IM contact details on the site very, very occasionally if I wish to communicate further.
I do point out that I am not interested in threesomes or the like; that if I want to meet a guy, I'd add a guy; that chicks are not to contact me and ask if their boyfriend can join in/watch.

Enjoy the chuckles that ensue. I do.

My rough guidelines:
1) almost any contact request I accept, and 2) if possible, they must start the conversation first - I like to see with which foot they lead... and subsequently stick in their mouth.
Sometimes I get bored waiting for the fish to bite... so you'll see me break these rules a few times...

And finally, to anyone out there who is also a member on a dating site and actually genuinely looking for love, I have only this to say:
Do not be discouraged by all the conversations you've had with weirdos similar to what you read here. Real people are out there. Sadly, it just takes a lot of sifting through the sand to find them.
Have faith, patience, but most of all, humour.

Peace.
- the blogger girl

Thursday, July 14, 2011

ah, robots - you gotta love 'em

jess09-09 sent you a flirt
"Can't Take My Eyes Off You"

*jess09-09 has been added to your contacts*

bloggergirl says:
hello
jess09-09 says:
hey
bloggergirl says:
thanks for the cartoon
jess09-09 says:
r u single ?
bloggergirl says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
u?
jess09-09 says:
yes babe
bloggergirl says:
cool
bloggergirl says:
what are you lookin for on here?
jess09-09 says:
do u msn ?
bloggergirl says:
i do, but not until i talk on here for a bit first
jess09-09 says:
ok
bloggergirl says:
so what are you lookin for?
jess09-09 says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
what does that mean? yes what?
bloggergirl says:
your profile is empty, so i ask an open question, and you say 'yes' ?
jess09-09 says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
riiiiight
jess09-09 says:
im hormey babe
bloggergirl says:
you speaky english?
bloggergirl says:
Hormey... that's either from somewhere in Europe, or it's hard to type with one hand
jess09-09 says:
r u hormey ?
bloggergirl says:
No I'm Australian
jess09-09 says:
ok
jess09-09 says:
do u fuck ?
bloggergirl says:
you mean, constantly? well not at this minute I must confess, no.
bloggergirl says:
you sound a lot like a bot, but sad to say I don't actually think you are, and that's a little laughable
jess09-09 says:
see pic
bloggergirl says:
*looks* nope, I see no pic
jess09-09 says:
do u sex ?
bloggergirl says:
sex is a verb now?
jess09-09 says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
I guess I don't speak proper Hormey. Language barriers and all
jess09-09 says:
ok
bloggergirl says:
jeez are you really that bored?
bloggergirl says:
why are you even here?
bloggergirl says:
surely you can finish yourself off to some porn online, instead of being mocked by the likes of me with your hand down your pants?
jess09-09 says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
bot city.
blah blah fla blee slah plah!
bloggergirl says:
*does the Safety Dance*
bloggergirl says:
one potato, two potato, three potato, four!
bloggergirl says:
*twirls*
bloggergirl says:
while I'm here, a big shout out to my friends in the break room!
bloggergirl says:
*makes a cup of tea*
jess09-09 says:
ok
bloggergirl says:
how you doing jess? this tickle your fancy?
jess09-09 says:
yes
bloggergirl says:
funny, I thought you'd say that!
jess09-09 says:
04---------------------- r u ?
bloggergirl says:
am I four? no, I'm slightly older than that

*jess09-09 is offline. *

bloggergirl says:
awwww, but we were having such a deep and meaningful conversation!
bloggergirl says:
*sniffle*
bloggergirl says:
now to cry myself to slumber!
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