About This Site: Social experimentation meets ever-so-slight masochism... or perhaps it's sadism?

These are the results of a few online dating website memberships. Some of what you are about to read are Guest posts, added kindly from others whom I've invited to contribute. The rest are mine.

All of them are real.

In these posts I simply want to point out the basis of my evident misanthropy.

This website is not about me or my search (however much in jest it may be these days :P ), it is about the people I encounter along the process involved. And sharing a few laughs with you, the public.

Males are highlighted in blue, females in pink - I know its a stereotype, but here it's just a visual aid (and if we don't get around to coloring them by the time you read them, well... 'meh').
I don't censor much as far as usernames or the like, but if it is requested I am more than happy to do so, anyone can just comment on the post.

Let's say you stumble across here and find a conversation we've had online posted below, and you don't have a humour of your own, if you want it removed or the username changed then all you need to do is comment and say so. All too easy, yeah?

The joy of the online world is we can enjoy a level of anonymity - that includes the people featured below - and no one needs know of your little indiscretions... unless you're one of those odd folk who use their full names as usernames.

Which serves as a fitting segue into the following pieces of info:

I am never false in these interactions: my pictures on the dating website are real, as are all of my profile details (ie height, weight, interests, location etc), and I do not pretend to be anything I'm not. If you see me answering what I do for a living and my answers differ: it's because I have several j0bs and it's just easier to only mention one.

I am a 20something Australian female interested predominantly in other females... or perhaps males though my profile does state that you have to be a pretty special male to have a chance.
I do state in my profile that I'm looking for Friendship and people to talk to. (Some other posts: I have selected Casual Dating also, and these both change between 'with a male/female/either' - depending on when the conversation takes place on my personal timeline). I don't lead anyone one to believe we'll get together if we won't.
I do share my phone number and IM contact details on the site very, very occasionally if I wish to communicate further.
I do point out that I am not interested in threesomes or the like; that if I want to meet a guy, I'd add a guy; that chicks are not to contact me and ask if their boyfriend can join in/watch.

Enjoy the chuckles that ensue. I do.

My rough guidelines:
1) almost any contact request I accept, and 2) if possible, they must start the conversation first - I like to see with which foot they lead... and subsequently stick in their mouth.
Sometimes I get bored waiting for the fish to bite... so you'll see me break these rules a few times...

And finally, to anyone out there who is also a member on a dating site and actually genuinely looking for love, I have only this to say:
Do not be discouraged by all the conversations you've had with weirdos similar to what you read here. Real people are out there. Sadly, it just takes a lot of sifting through the sand to find them.
Have faith, patience, but most of all, humour.

Peace.
- the blogger girl

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

The Might Adventures Of...!

gruffnut would like to be added to your contacts
Selected greeting: I like your profile and hope to learn more about you.


N.B I accept, but his icon shows him as offline. Immediately however, a conversation box opens, though he's still 'Invisible'.

gruffnut says:
hello
bloggergirl says:
hi invisible man
gruffnut says:
hi
bloggergirl says:
hi
bloggergirl says:
....
gruffnut says:
how are u
bloggergirl says:
sitting on the couch eating chocolate and patting my hundred cats crying about how nobody loves me. you?
gruffnut says:
sitting on couch wanking watching porn
bloggergirl says:
ah, then we both meet the stereotypes then. lovely!
gruffnut says:
lol
bloggergirl says:
*awaits for the moment to come when you ask if me and a couple of my girl friends want to come over for a pillow fight*
gruffnut says:
nar im happy wankn at momnet
bloggergirl says:
wait... so if a group of girls offered right this second to come over and pillow fight in front of you in their PJs, you'd say 'No thanks, I'm good' ?
gruffnut says:
yer cos i know what u askd wouldnt happpen
bloggergirl says:
not with that attitude!
bloggergirl says:
either that or that's some good porn you're watching
gruffnut says:
good porn
gruffnut says:
what ulooking for?
bloggergirl says:
I think the phrase 'good porn' is an oxymoron
gruffnut says:
my house mates here tho shes asleep
bloggergirl says:
and about here, dear readers is when the last 1% of my hope that he's joking in a sick witty way, similiar to my own mockery, slips into the abyss. (yeah, I did actually say that.)
gruffnut says:
lol
gruffnut says:
love to stop n talk shit but i better get bak to it
bloggergirl says:
yeah true, those big busty girls on the screen are busy, they won't wait for you.
gruffnut says:
thats correct
bloggergirl says:
farewell, captain invisible!
bloggergirl says:
the world is in peril!

*gruffnut has removed you from their contacts.*

1 comment:

  1. Wait...so he...dating site...watching porn...doesn't bother with you because...porn...

    My head hurts.

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